"They understood, together, as friends, and apart, as individuals in the world, the urgency of compassion, and that it often goes unnoticed but that this doesn’t make it any less important or vital or difficult to sustain and cultivate. And they also understood that you could try as hard as you possibly could, and disaster could still strike – mercilessly."

From a wonderful piece on female friendship, tragedy, and the “urgency of compassion.” (via jessicavalenti)